Clue, anyone?


I have always been proud of the fact that I get attached to people a lot, I have also been saying that I care what people think, I am not one of those people who think that one needs to please self, should never bother what other people think. I have always claimed that being in the society it does matter what people think about you, and what they have to offer to your personality.

Having said all that, may be its the time for me to notice yet another change in me, somehow I have started to care less about the people, I do not seem to care if people don’t like me.

Second change I am noticing is that, I am reaching out to people whom I have neglected knowingly or unknowingly over years, calling them up, sending them email, just saying hi.

No clue why this change, no clue what bought this change.


P.S. I really want to get back to my original blogging habbits, my thoughts and my experiments with writing, I am just not able to get back to where I was. Lets see how things shape up in coming days

21 responses »

  1. It happens … happened to me too. There is no reason but then it happens ๐Ÿ™‚

    Age I guess ๐Ÿ˜›

    and I hope you get back to that kind of writing too… would be a feast for the readers ๐Ÿ™‚

  2. “I have started to care less about the people, I do not seem to care if people donโ€™t like me” – I guess this is a good change and a good advice to me also ๐Ÿ™‚ Don’t know why I keep on caring even if someone doesn’t like me! Good that every relationship is getting importance in your life and every person around you is perceiving the happiness because of you! After-all everyone needs people and every one realizes this at some or the other point of life. Whatever be the reason, be like this ๐Ÿ™‚

  3. I’m experiencing the second change too. I guess it’s normal for people who care about other’s feelings and for those who are sensitive. *ahem* But still, if some tom dick or harry comments on what I do, I give a damn to their say.. As long as I am happy, satisfied and passionate about what I do, I usually dont tend to take anyone seriously. I dont know if this is a good habit or not though.

  4. Do sumtin abt this commentin thingy..every time i need to put down my email..its so irritatin.

    Ok now, the post!

    I don’t see any major change in ur bloggin style or habit. U still write in the fantastic way u alwayz did. I think u are thinkin too much..stop over analyson ur habits. haina

  5. relax on the blogging guilt,, it will be fine.. it is supposed to be fun remember??? and do the life thing.. change acknowledge it,, grow with it,, that is really what this is all about isn’t it????

  6. I could have been writing that. Exactly like plucking my thoughts out of my head…only I would have written it about a decade ago. I think what’s happening to you is a kind of maturity and self confidence that comes with age. At the same time you will always care what others think, and within limits, I think it’s a good thing.
    You know, when I was 15 years old, I would worry if the bus conductor frowned at me! ๐Ÿ™‚

  7. I think everyone goes through that sort of thing when they are “growing up”. It’s kind of a nice feeling. Perhaps it’ll lead to something nice.

  8. well…it seems that everyone is saying what I was going to say…LOL
    it’s not a bad thing, honest!!
    also, it’s not bad that you moved blogging habits, its just that blogging is such a big expression of who you are, that you’re working on expressing how you’re changing. Always changing…remember my song on my old blog? Changing by the dreamgirls? youtube it and listen to the words…changing isn’t a bad thing ๐Ÿ™‚

  9. I used to care a lot about what people thought about me. I really don’t anymore. On one hand, it’s a very liberating perspective, but on the other it can get kind of lonely. I hope you find a happy medium.

  10. Veens..somehow don’t think its because of the age..

    Preethi..growing up really?..thought this was a step in the wrong direction ๐Ÿ™‚

    Neilina.. I have always been happy that I care what people think..never thought it was bad..may be caring less is making me feel a little guilty I guess.

    Swat..not taking people seriously..I am not really sure as you..if it is good or bad ๐Ÿ™‚

    Sameera..yep and its helping me a lot…

    Kris..Change can be for the good or for the bad..and sometimes you don’t know which way this one is going..

    Mez.. I am sorry about the email thingy..its tough to keep spam out without it :). Stopping analysisng myself would be a whole knew me :)..lets see when I get there…

    Paisley..its not the guilt..and about the change..I think you are right…

    Knight..yeah relax..that sounds good..

    Nita.. that was a sound talk..It feels good to see a person who has gone through it..bus conductor frowning..I think I would mind that even now ๐Ÿ™‚

    Vanilla..older yes, wiser?? I doubt ๐Ÿ˜€

    Dc…you yes :D, we? doubt lol

    silver…hope it leads to something nice ..

    GG…now thats a interesting thing, blog reflecting the change in me..

    Autumn, I do believe it can be kind of lonely..rather a little too harsh as a personality

    Marja..hope it is for the good

    Suma..older? yeah if you count the change in days lol

    nrsl…thats a new perspective at the topic

    SK..perhaps yes.. no, it does not mean that..lets see where the next post is coming from ๐Ÿ™‚

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